Rekindling Our Sex Life: A Journey of Desire and Dominance We had been married for about 4 years and had a baby daughter of two. Our sex life had been pretty average. My wife had had very little experience with men prior to us getting together. It took me a fair while for her to open up and let herself go. I on the other hand, had had a pretty good tally of activities with other women. It was a long and somewhat tedious process getting her to be willing to participate in any sex orientated action. However I stuck to it and eventually she got involved and became a bit more receptive to my needs as well as her own. Sex with her was good, however she was never forthcoming with her needs wants and desires, but she was willing to respond to mine. We went on to have two more children. The children took a lot of her time as there was about 18 months between each of them. It was always me who initiated sex between us and over the years that followed I would be the dominant one and she the submissive one, which suited us both. She would accept the typical standard type of intimacy between us and was happy to plod on in this way. I on the other hand was looking to move on and add more excitement to our activities. I introduced her to some mild porn magazines which she at first disliked and took it as a personal indication that I thought she was inadequate. After allaying her fears and concerns, the magazines became more risqué as time went on, as did the video's I introduced which took the same path, which she slowly accepted through my sensitive and careful handling. I'd introduce erotic situations and stories to her whilst in the act of intercourse and occasionally delved into a little role-play fantasy in which I'd pretend to be a stranger who by chance would meet her in a bar, chat about things and find out she was married and that her husband was working away for a while and she was a little bored and lonely. …the next moment changed everything
