The Dark Side of Purposeful Breeding and the Impact of Penis Size on Relationships Purposeful breeding: n. The act of reproducing with the idea to maintain a stronger breed/offspring. While being very unpopular to the public, it is something that is in alarming uprise within our current society. I know this, because I’ve seen it in my career twice. The worst thing is… it turns me on! I cannot understand why either. So I decided to write it down and publish it on the internet here. This is where you come in. The reader. Maybe you’ve heard of it. In stories. Or maybe in your personal life. Maybe you find it disturbing. Maybe it turns you on as well! Whatever the reason may be that brought you here, I strongly advise you NOT to read this story if it disturbs you. So you’re still reading. Well this is the part where I tell you that purposeful breeding is a real thing. It’s something rare, or at least so I thought. After I first got into contact with it, I looked up what I could find out about it. It was much more popular than I thought. I’m a social psychologist (sort of) and my job is do the initial diagnosis of the patient’s problem. What is bothering them. What’s so odd is that in most cases, the victims are ‘fine’ with their situation, actually submit themselves to it, and live happily with it. Very surreal! So I probably only see 2% of all the victims - ergo the victims that had the sense they were actually going down the wrong path. …the next moment changed everything
The Dark Side of Purposeful Breeding and the Impact of Penis Size on Relationships
While being very unpopular to the public, it is something that is in alarming uprise within our current society. I know this, because I’ve seen it in my career twice. The worst thing is… it turns me on! I cannot understand why either. So I decided to write it down and publish it on the internet here.
This is where you come in. The reader. Maybe you’ve heard of it. In stories. Or maybe in your personal life. Maybe you find it disturbing. Maybe it turns you on as well! Whatever the reason may be that brought you here, I strongly advise you NOT to read this story if it disturbs you.
So you’re still reading. Well this is the part where I tell you that purposeful breeding is a real thing. It’s something rare, or at least so I thought. After I first got into contact with it, I looked up what I could find out about it. It was much more popular than I thought.
I’m a social psychologist (sort of) and my job is do the initial diagnosis of the patient’s problem. What is bothering them. What’s so odd is that in most cases, the victims are ‘fine’ with their situation, actually submit themselves to it, and live happily with it. Very surreal! So I probably only see 2% of all the victims - ergo the victims that had the sense they were actually going down the wrong path. Since the victims can only be female, and females are very prone to be ‘controlled’, I have strong beliefs that I will never ever see that 98%, even if this became a popular occurrence.
I have beliefs that by 2020, it will be mainstream knowledge. The majority of the population will walk around knowing about this problem. However, it is no reason for the threat to disappear.
“So what exactly is purposeful breeding?”, you might ask. How does it work? Let me talk about my patient Shirley. She’s the best example I can mention here. The other one isn’t as bad as she only got pregnant once.
Shirley dropped out of highschool. She was kind of the unsure type. She found a job in the local convenience store and, well she had a low wage. But it was fine for her as she still lived with her parents. By the time she turned 23, she met a smart guy named Mike. He was an IT consultant (for a big company I’m not going to mention for the sake of my own safety [lol]). He didn’t have ALL the money but had enough to live by himself. He was a bit shy. “The cute boy”, she said to me. “He was the kind of guy that asked you what you did on a random day, and show up in the middle with flowers”.
So I noted that Mike was a generous and giving, loving person. “Sometimes when went to eat out, he had trouble finding the right restaurant. He was sometimes unable to decide and asked me what I wanted. He blushed, it was sometimes cute”. When she said THAT to me I immediately noted that Mike must have had a lower self esteem. Often unsure and doubting his decisions. This is detrimental! I asked her whether that was disturbing to her or not. “In some cases it was a bit boring. I always responded with: ‘We’ll do what you want’... But he didn’t get that hint every time”.
She moved in with him after a few years of their going relationship. They were madly in love the few first months she told me. But after a while the feelings went away for her. But she gladly stayed with him because she felt in her place with him. Mike, on the other hand, still wanted more of her attention. Clearly he still had those first deep feelings for a longer period of time.
“Sex was great”, Shirley added. But they didn’t have any of that in the first two months. “That’s very long!”, she added with a subtly irritated undertone in her voice. I noted there that this might have something to do with one of the later responses. Let me progress…
When they did it for the first time they didn’t stop having it for some years to come, almost 4 times a week. But that’s not a whole lot I thought to myself. This however is personal opinion. From my own experience I can tell thats below average. Sex was casual, she reported.
“Did sex get boring after some time?”, I asked intermittently. “Well…”, she answered and paused for a short period, thinking yet about to admit for the first time: “Yes I guess I wanted something more. It lacked fire!”. As a relationship expert myself I know for a fact that keeping “the fire burning” is not an easy task. It requires conscious dedication from both parties. The act of giving is potential. But Mike came too soon, Shirley remarked, abruptly interrupting his attention towards his girlfriend’s satisfaction in bed. “Did you get to orgasm during sex?”. “No”, she replied. Very short and clear answer, pre-determined I felt.
“Did you finish yourself, in secret or not, after he had sex with you? Or did you fake an orgasm?”, I asked her. She replied that indeed she had faked her orgasm. Like many women do. “I did not want to hurt his feelings or ego. I felt it was the best thing to do. To lie to him instead of hurting him. It just felt like the better thing to do, please him”.
But it must have gotten to her head after a while, since she didn’t masturbate herself, as she reported. Guys just off-topic now, it’s very important in your relationship to please HER! A relationship is about the two of you and that means not leaving her in the cold when you finished up first. And admit it guys, most of you DO finish up in 10 minutes. For those of you that last longer: Bravo! But you’re still not there. You need to make HER orgasm FIRST. This might not be easy when the girl didn’t masturbate a lot outside of the relationship. A girl’s reaction or response to stimuli had to be a bit “trained”. She needs to be able to guide herself into an orgasm. A man can’t do it all. It requires her dedication. Once again a successful relationship requires DEDICATION FROM BOTH SIDES.
I strongly advise lasting at least an hour in bed. And do a lot of cardio in your local gym. The harder you can give it to her the more likely she will have a good response to that. For psychological reasons mainly. But I’m not a sexuologist, so this advise is really just me talking about my own experience. The psychological side of it all, I can tell you all about… It’s not looking pretty when she’s in the position of submitting herself without receiving a lot of pleasure.
Of course the relationship is much larger than just the sex, so that goes on for a few years, in the case of Mike and Shirley. At this point she talked to others about how she felt. Not really seeing it as a problem. But you know how women are when they talk to eachother. They need to open their hearts and let it flow. Whether it’s joy or misery. In Shirley’s case she had a colleague with whom she went swimming on fridays. She discussed her sex life a few times.
There for the first she heard about another person with his or her sex life. Her Colleague was in her thirties and was married to an investment banker. Successful man with a bunch of cash and a cadillac. Oh and he also had an 8” cock. That’s not really a detail since she told her that cock would stretch her out each time over and over again. “I’m so tight, and a day or two after he had stretched me out to be a bit more loose, I was just as tight as I was before.
You can see where the story is going? I know it’s so damn cruel to us ‘average’ guys. I myself am not a hung horse or anything. Just above average and in doubt myself too from time to time. You want to know the truth with size? Well here’s the hard truth. From what I’ve researched, and what these few patients have told me. Yes size mattered to THEM. There are about 50% of the women that find they don’t stretch well, or their cervical regions are just plain too sensitive, and they cannot handle it because it really hurts. So these girls don’t want the large penises that are currently on the market, and rest assured, they never will. So our average size still has a purpose! Yay!
Now have you ever taken the ruler next to your penis? Then you have probably been anxious about your size. Nothing makes a human “check it for sure” as much as a human with the feeling of anxiety. You just want to make sure that what you are feeling is in fact true. That your assumptions were correct. You wanna slay any form of doubt and just get it over with.
Average penis these days is 5-6”. That’s about 15 centimeters if you’re not used to imperial systems. If you’re under it don’t worry, if you’re above, all the better.
Back to my case study. In Shirley’s case, she was anxious her man wasn’t competent enough. This is a whole new case. Very uncommon. Because she heard her colleague describe so much pleasure which she then also repeatedly linked to the size of her man’s cock. It played this little trick on Shirley’s mind. She didn’t even have any idea how large an 8” cock was. Her colleague then again also described it as “monstrously thick”. These placid descriptions of penises make a woman wonder about it all the more.
She went a step further than what I thought she would. One night during sexual play with her boyfriend, Shirley did something out of the “routine” of their intercourse. She got up and got the rulers from the garage workbench. Probably in a state of shock, Mike couldn’t find any words to describe what he felt at that point. Well it must have hurt him somewhere. Even though she described it as trying to play it out as a game, when your girl tries to find out what exact size you are in numbers, it can only be used in comparison situations. Every man knows that. So even though my patient could not tell me this, I’m certain that her lover felt hurt by this.
Girls if you are reading this. NEVER, I repeat NEVER (even when the relationship is over) share the size details of your (ex) man with others. Not even for shits and giggles! It’s very sensitive data. You don’t want your (ex) man to talk about how flappy your lips were or how your buttcrack smelled like shit? Truth is that most men actually want to keep this info about you to themselves, which is against popular beliefs that the man is vulgar and says EVERYTHING about his girlfriend to his friends, drinks a beer and laughs out loud. Get rid of the stereotypes in your head. Yes there are men and women doing this, but joining in on this game is very raunchy. Don’t do it.
So yes size is very sensitive to a man. It has to do with his role as a man. To be responsible in protecting his wife and kids. To consciously direct his family in a good direction. To be able to please his wife and make her happy. Make her feel emotionally good. Make her feel safe. When he knows his wife thinks he’s too small, and knows there are other larger men out there that could potentially please her better, he feels he’s being dominated by a better man. It devours his ego. The ego of the man is important. It’s the fundament of his self confidence. Without his self confidence, the male does not fulfill his role, and the girl will not feel in her place with him. This is all instincts and nature playing. And a girl in specific, is very terrible in keeping her together against her hormones. A man can still fall back to logic. A system that might not ‘feel’ right but still makes you make the right decisions, and over time make you feel better.
The woman does not reside to logics always. Most can, but younger girls (16-25) are more prone to just go with gut feeling. “I’ll do whatever feels right”. They don’t need logic as long as they are happy. A man sacrifices happiness to postpone it. Just so in order to do the right thing. That “the right thing” sits in with logic. Now note that there are also men that go with gut feeling, and that some women out there are also thinking more in logical terms. Just stating what the average woman does.
Shirley hit her man deep. He did however wait a full two weeks before he started about it. I noted, just like I previously noted. This is a product of low self esteem. He was doubting his decision to talk to her about it. The good part is that he eventually did it. But since it was an argument starting two weeks late, Shirley was a little hard on him. She dismissed him completely, ignoring his feelings. To her at the time, she couldn’t really understand why he felt so bad. She just thought he had a bad day and was working it out on her by bringing up something old, something irrelevant… to her.
Well all aboard the ‘feel-train’. A relationship is all about ‘dat feel’. (I have a fascination to the ‘dat feel’ memes. I’m quite a young psychologist myself, I printed one out and hung it here in the office, LOL). But no kidding here for a moment now, if you’re not open to try and feel what your partner feels: “It ain’t never gonna work out nigga!”. Every time you hurt somebody or get hurt, you must talk about this, and not wait too long with that. If you don’t share feeling with each other you can forget that the relationship is going in a good direction. That’s obvious of course. But I’m also talking about feelings that aren’t so obvious. Being honest is key. Especially when you’re in the stage of the relationship, one or a few years, in which you can start telling each other just about anything. From: “I just farted”, to “I peed on you when we were in the shower together”. The two of you are just humans and no feeling is an offending. So you should share everything. As if you were to grow intertwined.
Why am I bragging all of this off-topic? Because those are all some factors that play the grand role together in this very weird situation, read closely:
Mike’s self esteem dropped, A LOT. Shirley on the other hand knew now that Mike only had 5”. She’s seen only one bigger, average penis in high school. The guy before that had a very small three-incher. That was her first. But back then she thought these were all normal sizes. To the point where Mike’s size actually mattered. It was amongst the better sizes to her. Well 5” is not that bad. Depending on what you did with it. But judging from how Shirley described her sex with him, I could figure out that he didn’t put in a lot of power or force into their intercourse. At least compensate for god sakes. Actually invest some time in trying to last longer. But I think Mike just didn’t feel any competition in that. And thus didn’t feel the need to “try harder”.
Also Shirley gave him feedback. Faking her orgasms and always telling him that he was good. It’s her own fault in THE END
